My Journey to Better Eating Habits & Less Guilt
Updated: Feb 11, 2020
I feel a little vulnerable sharing this but I know for a fact there are others who have felt this way, and I feel like it’s a service to share.
When I was competing in bodybuilding it was a great test of my perseverance, dedication, and commitment; and I enjoyed the grind and the process. However, it was tough on me mentally. I would look in the mirror and think I’m not lean enough. Like WHAT?! Crazy. I remember crying, literally crying with tears streaming down my face with my hood up and bags under my eyes as I did my 60 minutes of morning cardio. I followed a meal plan that included 6 almonds as a snack. BUT at the end of the night I was ravenous and would somehow find myself halfway through an entire jar of peanut butter. I would wake up in the morning feeling bloated, ashamed, weak (why can’t I just stick to the plan?!), and berate myself.
THEN in 2015 I found out I was pregnant. I realized I can’t eat out of Tupperware for the rest of my life and I can’t freak out on myself for not doing a workout or eating something I deemed “unhealthy/bad”. I wanted to be a good role model for this child. I didn’t want him growing up with anxiety around food and only exercising to look good. I wanted him to see a healthy mom who has a healthy relationship with food and exercise because it makes her FEEL good.
So I stopped prepping my meals and trusted myself to eat what I wanted when I was hungry and exercise because I enjoy it. This has been a long journey but I knew I had to do this for my children, and for myself. Now I can go on vacation and ENJOY it without the guilt I used to have because I’m eating “bad” foods, and OMG not exercising. I’m not perfect and I still over indulge now and then but I’m in a much happier and better place. :)
NOW I still meal prep but it looks A LOT different. I don’t have 14+ pieces of Tupperware laid out all over my kitchen.
My steps to meal prepping and planning look like this:
STEP 1: Decide on 3-4 healthy recipes you want to make that week that you will eat for lunches and dinners.
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- The number could be different for you. I know for my family of 4 (two adults, 2 toddlers) 3-4 meals is enough
- I also know we will eat out once over the weekend
- I always keep spaghetti ingredients on hand if we run out of meals!
STEP 2: Make a grocery list of the items you need for said recipes
STEP 3: Decide what snacks you want to have available during the week
STEP 4: Add items you need for snacks to the grocery list
STEP 5: Saturday or Sunday prepare all your meals and most of your snacks for the week. From start to finish with clean-up it takes me 2 hours, sometimes more. If you have help, it's faster. I cook and my husband does all the dishes when I’m done. If on the rare occasion he doesn’t have to occupy the kids then he will chop all the veggies.
- On Thursday if there are leftovers I don’t think we will get to then I will throw them in individual glass pyrex dishes and freeze them.
Snacks I prepare:
- Hard boiled eggs
- My Homemade Protein bars (find the recipe in my recipe ebook in the SHOP)
- If it’s going to be a busy week I will pre-portion my yogurt/cottage cheese for the work days as well
- One of my healthy sweet treats from my recipe book
Snacks I buy:
- Protein bars - if I don’t make my own
- Cottage cheese
- Greek yogurt
- Nuts (almonds or walnuts mostly because that’s what I like)
- Veggies and hummus
- Apples and peanut butter
- Rice cakes
- Peanut butter sandwich or roll-up
- Bread I buy - you can find at most stores
- Wraps I buy - you can find at most stores
Breakfast Prep Ideas
- Overnight oats
- Egg cups
- Nonfat plain greek yogurt with berries and healthy fat such as nut butter, ground flaxseeds, or chia seeds
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If any of this resonates with you or you have a similar story, I’d love to hear about it. Send me a message on Facebook or a DM on Instagram, and let me know your story, I’d love to connect with you.
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